I met my husband when were were on a high school debate team. Years later he still wants to debate everything and the constant arguing is exhausting. How do I make it stop?

I have taken to “letting him win” just to shut him up because I don’t want to hear it. He gets frustrated when I do this

I’m calmer than I used to be, and most of my attention is focused on our kids. I’m tired of the constant arguing, but I know he enjoys it. Please help me find a common ground with my husband. DEAR NO FIGHT: Some couples enjoy contention as a form of foreplay.

I’m calmer than I used to be, and most of my attention is focused on our kids. I’m tired of the constant arguing, but I know he enjoys it. Please help me find a common ground with my husband. -- NO FIGHT LEFT IN ME DEAR NO FIGHT: Some couples enjoy contention as a form of foreplay.

"Every time I state a simple opinion, he tries to engage in a debate, but he goes from zero to 100 in a minute and forgets to listen to my opinion."

My husband and I met on the debate team in high school. We would get into heated debates about every topic, and I think it was one of the things he loved most about me. Fast-forward 14 years and a couple of children later,

I’m tired of the constant arguing, but I know he enjoys it. Please help me find a common ground with my husband. — NO FIGHT LEFT IN ME Some couples enjoy contention as a form of foreplay. If you haven’t told your husband what you have related to me,